6. Life
7. Education
8. Mothers Ways of Answering Her Devotees
10. Grace
Ones karma, if not repeated, is abolished, says
Mother. This is contrary to our tradition.
The ideas
of Mother and Sri Aurobindo are revolutionary in the extreme. From the beginning neither
of them set great store by formal education that leads to a degree. Sri Aurobindo felt
that if one learns one subject with a certain thoroughness, his education will be complete
and he has the essential equipment to acquire any other subject by himself. He did feel
that history and biographies are great educators. The school they founded in the Ashram
for the children of the devotees teaches English and French and awards no degree at the
completion of the higher level course, a procedure not usually followed anywhere.
Mothers
view on education, especially on the capacity of the human mind, is perhaps unique. She
feels any man can do anything, if he chooses. She does not see any inherent limitation in
the mental capacity. It is known that ones intelligence does not increase during
ones life-time. What varies is its extent of application or the experience it draws
upon. But Mother says that if one chooses to be in touch with his Psychic Being, his
intelligence starts increasing. Mother gives the example of a rustic girl of low
intelligence who, during the period she was in touch with her psychic being, learned to
perform ballet dance at high levels which requires greater intelligence.
Concentrate
on the body, you fall ill; concentrate on your vital, you get depressed; concentrate on
your mind, you go mad is her description of human nature as expressed by the body,
nerves and mind. In other words, the parts of being in a man are fully unconscious. Their
normal capacity expresses smoothly when we are not actively giving them consideration. It
may be the experience of many that when you are in doubt about the spelling of a less
known word, if you simply write it down, the correct spelling comes out. When the
construction of a sentence is questioned, people often speak it out and the right form
emerges. Whether it is spelling or construction, originally we have consciously learnt
them correctly. With the passing of the years the skill has moved from the conscious to
the subconscious part of the mind. The subconscious remembers it correctly. Any stumbling
is only in the conscious part. This is why when we start writing or speaking, the right
form comes out automatically, as we say. Similarly, the health of our body,
joy in the vital and clarity in the mind have moved down to the subconscious or
unconscious, as the psychologists call it, and function smoothly. Our concentration on
them makes them conscious and brings in the disorder. Their order is in the subconscious.
We should not make them conscious if we want them to maintain their order.
Mother
offers a great secret of life to us if we wish to enjoy permanent happiness. Life becomes
miserable for us only when we expect others or events to behave as we want them to.
Obviously this is not what we notice in our behaviour, though our behaviour is shot
through and through with this attitude. First, the world around us is not going to oblige
our wishes. On the face of it, it is not practical or rational. If we change our attitude,
our misery will disappear. It comes in a subtle way into our thoughts. We do not openly
expect people to behave according to our wishes. What we expect them to do is the
right thing. Under the guise of rightness, we smuggle in our expectations. A
classical example is the parents who seek to arrange for the marriage of a son and a
daughter. All the complaints they voice when they seek an alliance for the daughter are
perfectly legitimate, rational and right. When the very same people seek an alliance for
their son, the whole attitude comes out in full. They are found behaving just like the
parents of their son-in-law. People who plead for fairness on one occasion refuse to offer
the same fairness in a similar situation in which they are the principal actors. That is
what Mother means when she says that people want others to behave according to their own
wishes. When the supramental force descends, it is necessary to create a bridge between
the old and new worlds. Mother says women are better fitted to create that bridge. Women
are better equipped as constructive creators, says Mother. They know how to handle the
power of truth.
Mother has
pronounced ideas on violence. She feels it is permissible only for self-defense.
The
brightness of the Lord, his original splendour, is so intense that even the sun looks
faded before Him.
Mother
does not distinguish between ordinary life and spiritual life. For Her there is a less
conscious life and a more conscious life. In other words, when man in ordinary life
becomes more conscious, he becomes spiritual and his life becomes a spiritual life.
Turn
the other cheek to your enemy who smites you on one cheek is a famous thought in
religion. With the enemy, Mother says, you must love him. In a mood of bravado one may
turn the other cheek with the inner emotions still remaining the same. But, at heart in
the emotions, one must have only love for another, be it a friend or an enemy.
Each
nation has a special endowment of its own. France is known for her intellectual clarity
and chivalry, Germany for her innovation, Japan for honour and beauty, USA for practical
organisation, and India for spirituality.
When world
politics was discussed, Mother said she found the Russians more sincere than the Western
politicians.
In areas
where people have energy, training, good upbringing, skill, capacity and a fairly long
tradition of having functioned successfully at a certain level, they rarely face problems.
In such areas not only do they have experience in using the materials available for a
certain accomplishment, they also have the capacity to manage when resources fall short. A
member of an agricultural family comes into that category when he has to cultivate, a
child of a professor in the field of education, a Chettiar youth with limited means
in a trade. That is what we describe as culture or tradition in the society with respect
to social survival. Traditional skill achieves successfully in circumstances of plenty.
Even in unfavourable circumstances it manages very well, but often feels the sore lack of
resources. Should this lack be made good, e.g. sufficient water supply to an
agriculturist, his problem vanishes.
Similarly,
for individuals born in a poor family, poverty is a long-term perennial problem. People
born with physical handicaps have come into this world with a problem. Though these too
are human problems, concerned individuals and the society they are born in consider them
not as problems of the individual but relegate them to a different category. They accept
the status quo as a reality with a sense of resignation. Solution for such issues is
available in Mothers life.
If we
eliminate several categories of the above description, what is generally considered as a
human problem can be described as the situation of individuals belonging to a particular
social level not being able to maintain that level for one reason or another. If three
boys in the house are educated and employed, while the fourth is not able to complete his
studies and settle down in life, this is a problem for the boy as well as the family. What
is a sour problem for him may not constitute a problem for another boy of a lower social
level trying to become a graduate in the first generation. When he is not able to take a
degree, this boy settles down as a shop assistant, which is socially one level higher than
his father who was a farm labourer.
The story
of the boy illustrates Mothers way of granting the highest aspiration of the
devotee, voiced or unvoiced. Delayed marriage, employment, delayed sale of a property or
right price for a valuable property represent this category along with numerous other
things.
The
devotee has a conscious desire, while he also has a deeply felt desire. The conscious
desire in the above illustration was to pass in the examination. It is in the mind. The
deeply felt but unvoiced aspiration in this case was a job in a reputable company. That is
in the subconscious. What is there in the mind is voiced through a prayer. What is in the
subconscious, though unvoiced, rises and spreads around in a subtle vibration. That is a
powerful vibration which reaches Mothers answering consciousness more quickly than a
prayer from the mind. Hence the fuller fulfilment of the unvoiced aspiration.
A need, a
desire, a possibility or even an impossibility gets granted by the Mother in the above
fashion.
We seem to
be singled out for special suffering sometimes. Under this category comes a long list of
problems like delayed promotion, a son in USA wanting to cancel his studies, a thesis
lying unapproved for a long time, an unjust court case, indigestion, chronic diarrhea,
incomplete studies, abandoned projects, an irresponsible husband, wife or child, etc.
The theory
behind all these problems is that there is some deficiency in the person or in the
circumstances. The deficiency may be in intelligence or nervous strength or capacity to
accomplish or favourable circumstances.
A simple
but genuine prayer of the sufferer reaches Mother. She either removes the insufficiency in
the circumstance or in the devotees being. Once that is removed, the problem is
readily and fully solved.
Neglected studies, wasted wealth, betrayal through trust
in bad characters, buying properties that are not economically viable, marrying an
irresponsible man and expecting him to change, duties to the family neglected, investment
in dubious projects, etc.in such cases, the bad results are no surprise to anyone.
Normally in life, if a man has ever bitten one of these baits of misfortune, he never
rises again. He is lost forever. Very rarely do people come out of these dangerous
situations. But with Mother the situation is always fully rectified, though there is a
condition for that.
As a minimum, before praying to Mother, the devotee
must realise his folly and decide to stop further acts of irresponsibility. At the
physical level of his behaviour he must change, e.g. the boy who neglected the studies
should start reading. If this much is done and a prayer is voiced to Mother, the entire
wrong done to his life gets corrected. Only that he must change his objectionable ways.
Many in life have fully realised and changed too, but life does not restore the lost money
or property. Mother always restores them.
One question arises. In certain cases, there is
nothing for a man to change now. It is too late because the property is lost or a
government job has been resigned. Obviously there are situations that are past remedy.
Here one thing is still possible. The mental attitude with which the original folly was
committed is still available in the mind. One must come forward to change it now. If a boy
who has wasted his time and let the chance of examination pass now changes his mind, we
say he has realised his error. After such a genuine realisation, if a prayer is voiced, it
will be granted in double measure. New circumstances come, new energy releases itself from
inside, new contacts appear, new rules or laws are enacted. Life for the penitent devotee
takes on wings. He ends up twice higher than he originally aimed.
An honest officer is unjustly punished by vindictive
politicians; a hard working student expected to top the state list is prevented from
appearing for the examination by circumstances; a soft spoken man marries a termagant
wife; an angel of a woman gets an uneducated poor blockhead because he is a maternal
uncle, etc. These are explained as karmic consequences.
Karma
must be suffered. No one can escape it unless he is a realised soul, says the
tradition. Faith in Mother and a deep prayer removes the immediate result and fully
dissolves the power of karma.
Whatever
the karma, if the devotee now comes forward to stop those activities that have generated
the karma, Mother wipes out the consequences. The devotees part is to stop those
activities.
Prayer to
Mother by such persons for the solution of a problem in a project where his karmic deeds
have accumulatedand which he refuses to stopwill yield copious results in
every other area of his life except in the project for which he prays.
This can
be a problem classified as unrewarded potential or unfulfilled ambition. A clerk whose
official knowledge and capacities were unrivalled, could not appear for the government
examination because he lacked a few marks in one subject. For 10 years he had been working
in leave vacancies of 10, 15, 30 days. An industrious, frugal householder had been
gathering house-building materials on his plot for 25 years, but for want of a substantial
sum was never able to begin building a house. A group of highly skilled, capable,
industrious labourers from a village had to walk to a town five miles away for daily wage
labour. An extremely honest, industrious contractor who had done 17 years of serious work
found his money spread among his clients uncollected.
People of
this description are talented, honest, and hard working. Life has given them no
fulfilment. If they come to Mother, they need not even pray. Their hard work is prayer
enough. What life has not given them, Mother gives at the first contact even without
prayer, because their honesty is purity and their work is the prayer of the very body.
Life is not able to give them rewards, even though they have several endowments, because
they lack something essential in their personality that prevents all other endowments
coming to fruition. Life is a field where you get back as much as you give. It does not
give you more than what you give it, because it cannot. In the above examples, I know what
was lacking in each case. But Mother is a field of creative consciousness. She gives much
more than what man offers to Her. Therefore, she is able to compensate for what is lacking
in the man and offer him rewards for the other existing endowments. Life is like a cement
tub that contains the water you have poured into it. Mother is a spring that gives more
than what it appears to have. Truly, Mother starts giving more and more when your capacity
to receive is greater. The more you take out of Her, the more She offers you.
When the faith, service and inner
contact with Mother are steady and constant, such results issue.
A layman
taking interest in technology accomplished very well. In three years the project he
founded became the biggest of its kind in the world. A man from no field wrote his first
book and in two years it was published in five languages. A state level officer at the
junior-most executive post was elevated, overlooking twelve of his superiors, to the post
of the chairman of the all-India organisation he was serving. A Rs.1,000 employee rose to
the status of buying a Rs.200 crore old English project in a period of 15 years,
thus reaching the social pinnacle. These individuals had simple but deep faith. To one of
them loyalty and honesty are second nature. Another is an extremely good man and
constitutionally he cannot be anything other than good. The third is one whose family
virtue of obedience and loyal sincerity are a way of life for him.
Mother
gives, gives and goes on giving. She can give only LOVE, a mothers love. Our
capacity to receive is a limitation. Even then, when one area of receptivity is filled to
overflowing, She discovers in you other areas where she can give. Effort, purity,
goodness, faith, service, and constant inner contact endlessly expand our receptivity. If
we are not pure in one area, She gives in
other areas. If we do not take effort, she chooses to give us things that we can
effortlessly accept. If we are not good by nature, Mother gives us occasions in which we
can only be good and makes that a channel for us to receive. If we are karma-ridden, she gives us opportunities to wipe out our karma.
If we do not respond to Mother, She gives
whatever is possible in the context. If we have no faith, She looks for one in our group
or family who has faith and gives us through his faith. If we go away from Her, She calls
us to Her again and again.
If your
parents do not love you, Mother gives you affectionate teachers and friends. If you are
lazy Mother accomplishes your work through anothers dynamism. If you are utterly
irresponsible, Mother has your responsibility discharged through anothers wider
sense of responsibility. If you have faith in medicine, She cures you through medicine. If
you believe in systems She accomplishes your work through systems. If you believe in law, She sends you protection through law. If you
foolishly trust a bad character, She makes him offer honest behaviour only to you. If you
help malicious venomous people, She keeps your head above water blissfully. If you get
into serious trouble, She offers you excellent openings to get out and She gives without asking. She gives more than what
you ask for. She makes misers generous with
you. She enacts new rules and laws to serve your particular need exactly. She gives you
unimagined capacities, inconceivable opportunities. Above all She gives you the joy that
pervades you inside and outside. BUT as devotees we should endeavour to be scrupulously
clean, honest, active, good-natured, self-giving, thoughtful, resourceful and above all
constantly remember Mother with love and devotion for Her own sake, for the joy She is and
the light She is.
Mother
says now that the new consciousness is there in the atmosphere, it responds to anyone who
seeks it. She gives an example of it from a news report. There was a news report in great
detail about a man in a hospital who went into shock from an injection of penicillin.
After some time the doctors gave him up for dead, but slowly the man got better and
eventually fully recovered. Later he explained how he felt the cells in his body begin to
die and death spread up to the heart. When the shock brought him death and his cells were
quickly dying, something in the man decided that he would not give up. Against his
decision, death was spreading to different parts of his body. But he would not give up.
Finally it reached the heart and affected that too. The man was not deterred, even after
his heart was affected. At long last, at the very last moment, death relented and his
efforts were rewarded. He found the dead cells began to revive. It was not he who would
give up. He persisted and persisted, till he fully revived.
On hearing
this report, Mother commented that the new force in the atmosphere responded to his
perseverance. His perseverance was great indeed.
Mother
says She puts a spark of hers as her emanation in the devotees who accept her. It gets
lodged in their souls and stays there forever. Mother holds herself responsible for anyone
who has met her, even if the meeting was only for a second. Mother was seen stopping her
work for a minute and then resuming. She says when ardent calls reach her and are
audible to her, she stops her work to send her response.
One night
during her sleep Mother heard someone frantically calling her. She woke up and
saw a man was leaning against a door and calling her. Next day Mother learnt
the news that Prime Minister Lal Bahadur Shastri had died at Tashkent the previous day.
Much later reports came to her about Shastris dying moments, which confirmed her
vision of him.
Mother
says this new power in the atmosphere is acting so that inextricable situations find
solutions and people rise up from their death bed.
1. Mother is accepted as Divine by those who come here as
casual visitors and who occasionally pray to her.
2. She is accepted by devotees who rely on her for serious
work. There are other regular visitors to the Ashram who have taken to Mother but they are
unconcerned about results in life.
3. Sadhaks accept her and pray to her only for spiritual
progress.
4. People accept her as one who would do something because
Mother has approved of it. Others would not do something because Mother has disapproved of
it.
5. One can accept Mother and change his behaviour to follow
Her. At a deeper level one can accept her and change his character to follow her. At the
deepest level people come forward to change their consciousness so as to follow Mother.
6. People who are examples of excellence in their own
lives, because of that characteristic, are devoted to Mother. She is accepted by those who
do work as Nishkamya karma.
7. There are those who would like to live their lives only
relying on Her. Others never pray for anything.
8. A true child soul seeks total identification with Her.
Sadhaks,
devotees, visitors and others can also be classified in a slightly different fashion.
1. We can accept Mother as one to whom we run in a crisis.
This is to accept Mother as our SAVIOUR.
2. We pray. The prayer is granted. We accept Her as one to
whom we can pray. This is to accept Mothers Divinity, as one of the several gods to
whom we pray.
3. To know the truth of Mothers avatarhood and accept
Her as such is to accept Mother as the Mother of creation.
4. To accept Mother as one to whom we refer all our major
works before we commence them is to consider Her as the source of all our major
existences.
5. To accept Mother as one to whom we refer all our minor
works before we commence them is to consider Mother as the origin of our entire existence
and functioning.
6. We can accept Mother as one who can give us anything we
pray for, provided that our prayer is a right one. This is based on a belief, Mother
can give, but my prayer must be right. This is to conceive of Mother as the origin
of all good in creation.
7. We can accept Her with the idea that only Mothers
solution is needed. If it is not there, I must change. No other solution is possible. I do
not need another solution. This implies exclusive reliance on Her.
8. To accept Mother as one who is adorable, who enlivens
memory, and whom the memory always seeks is based on constant remembrance.
9. To see Mother constantly inside oneself is constant
presence.
10. To be Mother in word and deed is identification in outer
life.
People are
of different types and many levels. Mother exists at all levels of creation and expresses
herself in all types. Prayer means the human soul turning to the Divine soul seeking a
relationship. Such a turning is called aspiration. When the individual soul seeks an
eternal relationship with the Divine soul, the Mother of souls plays an intermediary role
to make that relationship initially possible and consummates it in all its possibilities.
This call from below and the answer from above find expression in the field of life and
lose their character of call and answer. According to the given context it is a moved
emotion, a great expansiveness, a trance like meditation, etc. At a more mundane level, it
is a prayer for an ice cream or a sanction of success in a national election. Whatever the
prayer and whatever the appearance of the sanction, it is the child soul turning towards
the transcendent reality seeking a merger. Several of these can be explained.
2. Adults ask for what is right. Mother grants it so that
they will progress according to their own light. Some even insist on what is wrong. Mother
often grants it in the hope he will soon realise.
3. Man does not know what to ask for. He prays for guidance
and protection. She gives.
4. Man knows his desires but prefers to accept
Mothers guidance, resulting in Man conquering his desires and taking to
consecration.
5. Man takes to consecration in all details of his life and
progresses in surrender.
6. Man prays for the small thing he knows and cherishes.
Mother refuses to grant it and grants something greater.
7. Man sees his prayer granted in every small thing but
does not work to remove his central defect. She waits for him to become aware of his
central defect.
8. Mans prayer for anyone else is readily granted but
not so readily for himself. It means he persists in utterly foolish ways of life.
9. Man does not even pray; nor does he know he deserves
anything. She gives. Many accept and prosper; some refuse and make Mother wait for their
readiness in future.
10. Sometimes he prays; sometimes he forgets to pray. She
takes very good care of all his affairs. His soul receives. He is a pure devotee, though
not fully conscious.
11. There are many pure souls on earth. They have not known
of Mothers existence at all. She knows all of them and all the needs of their souls
and answers the calls they have not made.
12. There are child-like souls who work hard, who are
selfless, cheerful, pure, expansive, not even thinking of God or Mother. Simply they are
spontaneous, fresh and are at their best at all times. She constantly keeps in touch with
them.
2. An impossible tangle of difficulties is resolved up to
99% or an incurable disease is relieved 99%. A man at the age of 65 got his arthritis
relieved 99%. Mother acts from her Grace but through the faith of the devotee. I make a
distinction between Mother acting through one of her powers, and her acting through a
favourable circumstance around the devotee. In this example, Mother acts by her Grace
through the faith of the devotee. If Grace had acted by itself, the relief would have been
100%. Faith moves mountains and in this case, it moved the Divine Power to relieve an
incurable disease in an impossible condition. That is the greatness of faith. Still faith
limits the achievement to 99%, whereas if grace acts on its own the cure will be 100%.
3. We often say our prayer is over fulfilled. This is the
characteristic of Grace. A boy who endeavoured to simply pass the examination rose to the
first rank; the candidate who ardently aspired for a clerkship got an officers job;
property put up for sale for Rs.27,000 rupees fetched Rs.81,000; a devotee who longed to
buy an acre of land bought 15 acres; the trader who moved heaven and earth to secure a
district dealership became the director of the manufacturing company. These are all pure
expressions of Grace, the presence of Grace indicated by the excess that comes.
4. When Grace sails towards the devotee, there may be
visible reasons from the devotees side. Grace acts on its own, not in response to
your prayer, your work or your desert. Still the devotee often finds an ostensible
reason for the incidence of Grace.
a. Grace comes because one has by his long industrious work
deserved it. A farmer worked on his 100 acre plot so intelligently and diligently that he
was universally admired. When the farmer completed his programme on his 100 acre estate,
things shaped up in an unexpected fashion so totally that he was able to buy the adjacent
100 acre farm. It came in such a succession that the huge crew of workers on the first
estate could take over the reclamation of the next estate without their having to disband
themselves.
b. Grace comes in answer to a specific prayer. Indira
Gandhi came to Mother praying for 250 Lok Sabha seats and ended up winning 350 seats.
c. Grace comes without a prayer, without man knowing of the
existence of it. It awaits entry, awaits for a token acceptance. At the end of 30 years of
business, an American businessman on whom Grace decided to descend received as much
business in one year as in all the 30 years before. Grace waited at his door, waiting for
a token of gratitude. He flatly refused Grace and its gift receded.
d. Grace moves and GRANTS without ones asking for it or even knowing the
power of Grace just because one is related to a centre of Grace. A man whose back was
seriously broken was suffering intense back pain for 15 years. He was not interested in
meeting Mother when he came to Pondicherry, but when he relented and had Her Darshan
he was fully relieved of his pain in the back.
e. Grace moves on its own to convert a difficulty into an
opportunity. Corrupt, dishonest colleagues of an honest officer foisted a false enquiry on
him behind his back. The enquiry resulted in exposing everyone who conspired for it and
raised the honest victim above the heads of the hawks.
f. Grace awaits us at all points of life as if it awaits
the visit of a VIP when out of perverse foolishness one drags oneself into trouble. A
perverse stupid man in his anger at the success of his only well-wisher foolishly handled
some articles and severely damaged his hand. Just at the moment when everything required a
vehicle, a driver, a doctor, etc., they were readily available. On top of that the doctor,
after a second examination, found there was no fracture of the bones. Had one link been
missing, the suffering of the victim could have been great, leading to complications.
g. Grace does answer after man persistently exhausts all
perverse opportunities to ruin himself. A greedy fool resigned a secure government job to
become a teacher and raise his academic status and later discovered his folly. A
fortuitous chance got him back the same government job at a higher level, making up for
the loss of seniority during the interim period.
It is a sure sign of Grace when something comes
unasked. If there is a little extra than what is needed or prayed for, it indicates the
presence of Grace. When Grace acts, unseen quarters offer help; long standing rules are
changed in your favour; a new rule is made in an unbelievable way just to meet your
precise requirements; the unheard of possibility happens; someone acts contrary to his
nature to be of use to you; in spite of ones folly and utter perversity, one is not
able to spoil the work and it gets completed.
Grace always acts unknown to anybody for the good of
all as when the Chinese retreated from the Indian border.